Navigating Co-Parent Relationships and Harassment

Navigating Co-Parent Relationships and Harassment up is difficult enough without having to deal with your co-parent harassing you. The harassment can take on a variety of forms including endless phone calls or texts, showing up unannounced at your home or workplace, and spreading rumors about you to friends, family, and even strangers on social media.

Many co-parents will use a form of harassment as a way to try and control their ex-partner or get back at them for actions that led to the breakdown of their marriage. This type of behavior is toxic and hurts the children involved. It is important to remember that if the harassment becomes physical, you should call the police immediately and seek legal action as soon as possible.

Smooth Sailing or Stormy Waters? Navigating Co-Parent Relationships and Harassment

The first step is to make a list of all instances of harassment. Include a description of the situation, the date and time of each incident, and any witnesses. Also, be sure to save any emails, text messages or other digital communications from the harassing co-parent.

Having clear boundaries with your co-parent is critical when dealing with a narcissistic harasser. Keep communication limited to topics related to the children, and avoid sharing personal information. If the harassing co-parent is on your social media, consider blocking them temporarily until this type of behavior is resolved. Additionally, it is a good idea to see your own therapist and/or your child’s therapist during this difficult time.

In cities of all sizes, painted Creative Crosswalks  serve as pedestrian safety tools that lead people to safe destinations and alert drivers to pay special attention. The instantly recognizable white stripes are the standard across most of the United States, but some communities are going colorful. From rainbows in San Francisco to a series of intricate patterns in Long Beach, the idea of eye-catching crosswalks that are both art and enhanced safety features is gaining traction.

The Knight Creative Community Partnership worked with local artists, students and families to add artistic designs to three schools in the Sabal Palm neighborhood as part of its “crosswalks to classrooms” initiative. The project was motivated by research from Bloomberg philanthropies that shows visually appealing art creates a 50 percent decrease in the rate of crashes involving pedestrians.

Rainbow Crossings: A Visual Tribute to the LGBTQ+ Movement’s History and Progress

Using a grant from CADA, Downtown Partnership is working with City Departments and community partners to explore the possibilities for permanent creative crosswalks. The first will be a rainbow design on Colorado Avenue and Tejon Street, one of the intersections on the Pride parade route in downtown Colorado Springs.

When executed with care and in alignment with federal safety standards, creative crosswalks can enliven a neighborhood while sending the message that roads are not just for cars, but for everyone. Pairing crosswalks with other urban mobility improvements like reduced speed limits, new bike lanes and more outdoor work and dining space can amplify the impact. This approach to street culture can help reshape perceptions of cities as “car-centric” and build support for a more balanced transportation system.